[SoNotHer]

So much fun and wisdom in this post, Passionaria. Awesome quote from Rivers, and I couldn't agree more about dancing. Dancing tells you a lot. And poetry, well, there's a world there.

Passionate creativity? Oh, yes indeed. That's fire itself.

Thank you for this!

Originally Posted by Passionaria

Did someone just tell you they had sex and how?

Ears perked, people do share their stories, yes. ... I read a quote by Joan Rivers on a friend of mine's blog that went something like this;

No Butch will ever make love to a woman because she waxed the linoleum - "My God, the floor's immaculate. Lie down, you hot bitch."

Life experience has taught me this is true. It's better to be naughty, you have more fun.

What are your favorite expressions for sex, and how do you let them know you're ready to go?

Teasing, is always good, it breaks the ice.

Dancing is a good way to find out a lot of things *smirk* Then there are certain types of eye contact, especially when dancing that can give people clarity, with no words.

One of my favorite expressions is writing poetry and erotica. If I fancy someone I will invite them to read my blog, and see if they still talk to me. Best get this settled early on. I write what I feel and desire, so it's a window into me, for them. A chance to see if we have common desires, for me. If I really have feelings for someone I will write a special collection, poems and stories, just for them. May even voice them. There is a flip side to dating a poet though....... you understand that right? *blink blink*

I love it when a Butch can meet me there, in some fashion, passionate creativity is HOT.

Lot's more, but most things are best experienced privately.