I
almost understand significant others who get jealous about their person/partner flirting with others? But then, I only
almost understand monogamy, so I know I'm out of the loop on that one. Jealousy just doesn't run deep in my bones.
But I definitely don't understand people/persons who get offended when an acquaintance or even a stranger flirts with them.
I've always thought of flirting as a fun past-time that mutually bolsters egos. Being flirted with means someone found you cute, or smart, or funny... it's like a verbal exchange offered in reward for your ability to interest another person or engage with them on whatever level.
It's the oldest game in the world. It's generally harmless. It's a compliment. Smile and fire back what you've got. If you're not interested, smile and say so and you or I will shrug and move on. Nothing lost. And at least two people shared a smile.
For my sake, by all means, should you ever meet a 5-foot something gal w/green cat eyes and freckles and think she is cute/smart/funny, say so -- it might be me and I might need cheering up that day!
