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Originally Posted by Gemme
I am certainly not Honey and can't speak for her, but I do know what it's like to date someone that's several years one's junior.
It's going through the same growth and crises and angst that you went through years ago but through your partner's eyes.
And it's freakin' draining.
I'm no one's trainer in my personal relationships. If they aren't where I am psychologically and emotionally and in general, then they are not with me.
P.S.~ Your question to her sounded a bit personal and catty to me. Just an observation.
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What I bolded is one of the clearest statements about going through this situation I have ever read. And why more often than not (there are exceptions, but I always wonder about the developmental age of the more senior member in these), a large age difference doesn't work.
I also agree with your observation about some cattiness to the question and that it was a personal shot. I could be wrong- don't know either party, but keeping the personal out of the forums/threads is really appreciated.