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JustJo · 01-12-2012, 12:56 PM

I've been one who asked.

Honestly, I would like to know if there is something serious I should be aware of....and I'd also like to know if the "reference" is a good one too.

I recently asked about someone....not randomly or haphazardly or in general...but someone that I knew actually KNEW the person I was asking about...and someone whose opinion I trusted.

I'm very glad I did.

Now....would I reach out and offer my opinion without being asked? No. My feeling is that, if someone wants to know, they will ask me.

Would I give an opinion about someone I didn't know well? No, I'd decline.

Would I give an honest, factual account of someone that I did know well? Yep.

01-12-2012, 12:56 PM	#16
JustJo Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: pushy broad Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Follow your heart; it knows things your mind cannot explain. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Southeast corner Posts: 5,633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,417 Thanked 25,406 Times in 4,660 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I've been one who asked. Honestly, I would like to know if there is something serious I should be aware of....and I'd also like to know if the "reference" is a good one too. I recently asked about someone....not randomly or haphazardly or in general...but someone that I knew actually KNEW the person I was asking about...and someone whose opinion I trusted. I'm very glad I did. Now....would I reach out and offer my opinion without being asked? No. My feeling is that, if someone wants to know, they will ask me. Would I give an opinion about someone I didn't know well? No, I'd decline. Would I give an honest, factual account of someone that I did know well? Yep. __________________ I'm not tall enough to ride emotional roller coasters