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mplsgrrl · 01-16-2012, 09:56 PM

Good evening. I'm looking for your thoughts. Perhaps your advice. I'm not sure if this is an appropriate place to post.

I've been single and dating for the last 2 years. I've recently come in contact with someone I dated several months ago. The first time I saw her after our reconnection she told me she loved me and "never stopped." I've always believed her to be genuine. I want to be believe her. But... she can't understand my need/desire to communicate with her on more than a weekly basis (or about that). Example: we spoke this weekend. I have not heard from her in 3 days. In my heart, I don't feel that love she speaks of without that contact I desire. (Note: this is a local, not internet or long-distance dating situation.)

I don't feel like I'm being "played" by her. (I definitely know what that feels like.) More like... I just don't know if our communication styles are compatible - which is why we stopped dating in the first place.

Can anyone relate?

01-16-2012, 09:56 PM	#7844
mplsgrrl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: low-maintenance femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Minneapolis Posts: 23 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96 Thanked 42 Times in 17 Posts Rep Power: 782260	Love? Not sure where to post this Good evening. I'm looking for your thoughts. Perhaps your advice. I'm not sure if this is an appropriate place to post. I've been single and dating for the last 2 years. I've recently come in contact with someone I dated several months ago. The first time I saw her after our reconnection she told me she loved me and "never stopped." I've always believed her to be genuine. I want to be believe her. But... she can't understand my need/desire to communicate with her on more than a weekly basis (or about that). Example: we spoke this weekend. I have not heard from her in 3 days. In my heart, I don't feel that love she speaks of without that contact I desire. (Note: this is a local, not internet or long-distance dating situation.) I don't feel like I'm being "played" by her. (I definitely know what that feels like.) More like... I just don't know if our communication styles are compatible - which is why we stopped dating in the first place. Can anyone relate?