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How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme
Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess
Relationship Status: Completely in love
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Southern Virginia
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I am quickly turned off by game players and can normally spot this right away. One of my new rules, within the past few years, is that I won't interact with someone who has no history or isn't visible to some degree. I ask for their facebook account because I want to know that they are a real person, have friends, family and not hiding a bunch of shit. I've actually given my number to someone who called me and blocked their caller ID. lol I didn't bother answering. I knew who it was and told them I don't play those games.
I don't have a lot of free time for dabbling. I want to know that if I'm investing time that I at least end up with a great friend. I'll carefully watch someone and if it seems like they are emotionally immature, constantly changing their relationship status, always complaining, negative , etc. I file them under acquaintance. If you're on the fence about wanting to ge close with me then it means you ain't working hard enough to get and keep my attention, therefore you'll most likely lose my interest.
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You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else.
~ Daniel Franzese
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