I know this was posted for butches, but femmes feel these things too.
I am overweight, trying really hard to loose some of it.
It makes me severly self conscious and unattractive
Yet I like a butch with some weight on them
I love someone who makes me feel comfortable in my own skin because then I start to be happier with myself
I was with a skinny person but the way I cook all the time and bake I put some weight on that person.
I do care about how I look and am not one that wears sleeping pants or even sweats in public. I just dont feel attractive and if anyone was to ever hit on me they would probably have to hit me on the head with a pan in order for me to get it.