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Originally Posted by Laerkin
Hi everyone!
I am eyeball deep in finishing up my degree and I am required to conduct a research experiment for my psychology class.
I have selected the issue of monogamy/nonmonogamy among people in committed relationships.
I know there is a wonderful array of ideas and practices amongst the gracious members here, so I wanted to reach out.
The questions I am seeking answers to are listed below. Or, if you'd like to post anonymously, I also have an online survey at: http://FreeOnlineSurveys.com/renders...r1ufr1y1026785
- Are you in a committed, long-term relationship?
- Do you identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, queer, or other?
- Are you 18-29, 30-49, or aged like a nice wine?
- Do you identify as male, female, butch, femme, transgendered, or other?
- If your spouse/partner would be supportive and accepting of the idea, would you (do you) explore open relationships/sex outside your primary relationship?
- If so, why? If not, why not?
Looking forward to a milieu of experiences and responses.
Thank you!
Laerkin |
I am in a committed, long-term relationship.
I identify as a lesbian.
I am 24 years old.
I identify as a femme.
I am monogamous, and even if my partner was supportive of me being intimate with others, I would not. I do not find the idea appealing, nor do I have any desire to explore. In the past, I have tried having a primary relationship while seeing others, and it did not work out. I am possessive I suppose, for lack of better word, and do not want to share or be shared. I feel that it would lessen the bond I have with my partner, and it would make me resentful.