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1QuirkyKiwi · 02-12-2012, 08:47 AM

This is on my mind….

Last week I got a message on a dating site I have a profile on; I was intent to send the standard reply of: “Thank you for your interest. I’ve just started dating someone and seeing how it goes. I wish you every success, etc, etc.” ….Only, the message is from a woman I went to school with; she was always hetero, or so everyone believed.

She asked if we could chat, as she’s lost some friends since the break up of her relationship a year ago and finds Cornwall a little isolating. Whilst I understand how she feels and I'm happy chatting and reminiscing on old times, etc,….intuitively something isn’t right; I can’t say what. I know in time I’ll find out, so, I’m keeping all contact with her strictly to the dating site. I have explained that I’m dating and it’s still early days.

The messages sor far have been about school....who married who.... where they live....what they've done and a little about her life sincing leaving school.

I’ve asked for advice on how to handle this from my English cousin, K and some close friends, as it’s not one I’ve encountered before. The general opinions are to continue chatting with her on the site, that way should she turn negative, the site Customer Services can deal with it and read any messages.

02-12-2012, 08:47 AM	#7257
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