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Originally Posted by DapperButch
You know, for years I have looked at these "crush" threads and had the same thoughts.
1) I have never had a crush
2) I am not sure I know what a crush is.
I am thinking that maybe the definition of crush is "sort of" liking somebody?
That doesn't happen to me. I like a person, I never "sort of" like a person.
Maybe someone can explain it to me?
I suppose I might sometimes "think" I like a person. Like I could say to myself, "I think I like this person". Is that a crush?
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A crush is just a crush - that's all it is. It's not about being in love or obsessing about someone ...... It's a sense that there's something or somethings about someone that you like or find attractive. In my mind, crushing on a forum such as this is a bit like smiling to someone in a bar - it doesn't need to lead to anything, seldom does but can.
Personally, I think crushes are healthy. I'm a multi-crusher ....... Although I'm off crushing for lent.