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How Do You Identify?: A romantic butch who loves to cuddle... and steal your french fry when you're not looking!
Preferred Pronoun?: No preference.
Relationship Status: Single, always looking to mingle and maybe be tamed one day
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Northern Florida
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Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex?
I know the answer depends on a few factors but here's what I find myself facing right now:
An ex that I haven't dated in two years is back in contact with me. Not because she wants to be with me but because she needs a friend and says I was the only person she ever felt really cared about her.
I'm not in love with her anymore, heck weeks can go by before I even think about her. However, I have a fatal flaw in relationships... I love to save a damsel in distress, and that includes being the supporter when they're hurting.
I'm not saying anything will happen but I'm concerned more about myself in this situation. It wasn't a great relationship and I was the one hurt in the end... I don't want to even allow the chance for old feelings to come back.
Is it possible to really be a friend to her or is this one I should back off from?
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