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Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly
She has not been around woman/female identified butches, only male identified. She has been around Femme's, and she has been around andro-lesbians.
Part of the problem is that she wears a size 13 shoe, is 6' tall, has hands as big as small plates and is considerably overweight. She thinks all of her issues would be resolved if she were male.
As Sachita said in her responce, I think I am going to have to find a way to get her to see a therapist again. This was not the issue at the time, but she already tried to kill herself once and I take no chances where she is concerned.
Thank you for your thoughts.  |
I think there are several issues going on here. Something much deeper then sexual identity. Sometimes kids will adopt an identity or fad to mask and cover deeply emotional problems to deflect.
It is very important to find someone who is accepting of all lifestyle but qualified to get the core of what is really going on. Good luck to you. I know it isn't easy. My son is an adult man now but he sure did put me through hell. He still does now sometimes but I admit that he turned out to be a wonderful man and excellent father. I often wonder tho is maybe I raised him to be a bit too free spirited because he has difficulty accepting and adapting top anything mainstream.