No I haven't made sweeping statements or generalizations. My statements are based on what I have and haven't read on bf forums for over 10 years. I have seen lots and lots of conversations by femmes trying to understand transmen and their struggles. I have seen very little about transmen educating themselves about lesbians/queer femmes, talking about needing to join support groups, how their id changes based on who they date etc.
There was an transman who just yesterday said he tried to find such conversation when he was dealing with some issues and couldn't find any.
If I have somehow missed all of these types of fascinating conversations over the years feel free to provide links so I can read them.
I also stated at least 2 or 3 times that private conversations between couples could be different.
None of my posts had anything to do with butch vs transmen. None whatsoever. Some issues will be the same, some will be different in terms of dating a transman or dating a butch.
I am out. I have real life in the real world to enjoy.
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