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Originally Posted by Parker
Should have used the mulit-quote feature, so I edited the multiple posts into one. Sorry about that.
In this patriarchal world, yes, "good girls" are expected to keep their mouths shut - which is why I used the phrase, Julie; because it FELT misogynistic to be shamed and called out like that for words and behavior that simply werent there. I was hearing "sit down and shut up like a good little girl while the rest of us talk about this because your opinion doesnt matter."
And I am not going to apologize for calling out what I see as shit-stirring when I see it simply because you are now trying to shame me by calling me ugly. Using a sweeping generalization of "butches are demonizing transguys" was in my opinion, doing nothing but stirring shit because that wasnt what was happening.
I am not telling anyone here how to behave, I would sincerely appreciate the same in return.
Thanks.
Actually, Julie, I never called anyone any names; you however have called me ugly more than once for calling out what I saw as shit-stirring.
You had more than "an opinion."
You accused butches of trying to "demonize transguys" and then tried to shame us with those accusations and some sweeping generalizations of your own.
The end.
ps - I didnt call you a shit stirrer, I said you were stirring shit. It might be splitting hairs, but I wanted to call out behavior or words you said, not call you names.
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Parker -- I never called you UGLY. Believe me, you would know if I did. I said your posting was UGLY and it was.
I would not expect an apology from you... Anymore than I would think you would expect one from me. I feel your writings are condescending, ugly and rude. Just my opinion.
Julie