i prefer to date people who complement me rather than people who are exactly like me, but i look for similar qualities that i like about myself in other people...for example, joy, gratitude, satisfaction with life, someone who cares about social justice, has a good sense of humor, likes to cuddle, etc.

so i guess i'd date myself (or someone who had similar quirks, values, outlook on life, and direction in life). i think i'm pretty fucking spectacular.