Hello and welcome!
Plenty of people on this forum will not judge you. After all, many of us have been judged at different times, whether for gender presentation, following the B-F dynamic (which some sadly consider to be succumbing to a patriarchal society and conforming to gender roles), or a million other things that only the other members themselves can state for sure.
I've never had a problem with bi women. In fact, I have dated mostly bi women. I have't specifically sought them out or chased them - it just happened that way. There is usually a mutual appreciation between us and I have heard I am "best of both worlds."
I know you have received a good deal of questioning from others and felt singled out, but I hope you feel warm, fuzzy, and welcomed here.