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kittygrrl · 03-24-2012, 05:07 AM

I think labeling is especially useful when someone is trying to figure out what feels good and where they fit socially..I think being a queer woman now is a lot different then it was 15 years ago when p.c was in and just about everything else was thrown "out" (at least this was my experience)..having nothing for comparison was a bit hard on my psyche (being femme) so I can't imagine how difficult it may have been for transgender etc..so I don't see anything wrong with labeling if it helps you personally..what's not so appreciated is when someone else is doing the labeling..imo

03-24-2012, 05:07 AM	#10
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: baker Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wrapped in a shawl Posts: 9,772 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,737 Thanked 22,163 Times in 7,229 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	as above i agree.. I think labeling is especially useful when someone is trying to figure out what feels good and where they fit socially..I think being a queer woman now is a lot different then it was 15 years ago when p.c was in and just about everything else was thrown "out" (at least this was my experience)..having nothing for comparison was a bit hard on my psyche (being femme) so I can't imagine how difficult it may have been for transgender etc..so I don't see anything wrong with labeling if it helps you personally..what's not so appreciated is when someone else is doing the labeling..imo