[Ginger]

Originally Posted by Thinker

There's an old, old movie titled Imitation of Life. My mother made us watch it everytime it was on TV.

She wanted us to be proud of who we are and where we come from. I think the biggest lesson in it was that she did not want us to do things or act in ways that we would later regret......later when it was "too late" to make amends.

I definitely carried that with me into my adult life. While not perfect, I almost always put a good amount of thought into things I say and decisions I make so I don't have regrets later.

I remember watching that movie when I was a little kid, and being incredibly saddened by the daughter's self-imposed estrangement from her mother. I was already at that place in my childhood of aching for my mother's love and approval, and the tragedy of choosing to let go of a mother's love seemed unbelievably self-destructive and haunting to me.