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Originally Posted by dancer611
So you do not allow for self defense? I was supposed to allow her to drunkenly attack me??!
I didn't mean that to sound rude, at all. It's just that people keep saying I should have done something different, and I'm not sure what that was. I was screaming and crying, but no one came; I had no phone to call anyone; and I could not just "walk away" because she was trapping and following me, and/or pinning me down or putting her hand over my mouth. So what on earth else was I supposed to do, if I'm not allowed to ever lay a hand on anyone?
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I used to council women and men *yes, they get abused and raped too* - and I always was trained and believe it is true. You do whatever you have to to survive. Shout, scream, run... get away.
and they are most dangerous after you have left, so you have to keep your guard up
we call it being hyper vigilant
I agree with what Jagg said and the way Jagg said it!
Run.
Get help and do not go back!