04-13-2012, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself
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~speak out the minute you start to have a problem. Don't wait until it's big and you're fuming about it to bring it up. Remember they can't read minds.
~take your partner at their word. Don't read too much into their actions. Trust that they mean what they say.
~get out of the relationship if the trust is gone. Sometimes it's damaged and can be rebuilt, but when it's gone, it's GONE.
~laugh, a lot, together.
~get out of the house. One of you is bound to go stir crazy.
~have separate activities and interests and friends, but have some together too.
~be clear about what you want out of life, and life together. People who care will live up to reasonable expectations, and if you care, you will too.
~think before you speak or write about your partner. Assume they can hear you at all times, even if they're not there.
~buy/make small thoughtful gifts for no reason, doesn't matter if you're butch or femme. Everyone likes to know they're being though of
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this is quite a nice list, thank you! we all forget to do these things!
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