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Originally Posted by Apocalipstic
I think Turtle has it right though, we have to teach people how we want to be treated, we can't expect all Butches to just know how we want to be treated...especially when its so different from Femme to Femme.
I know Femmes who LOVE to be asked to use their beauty or cleavage to get stuff done, just as I know plenty of Butches who would never ask.
We all are different and need different things from each other.
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I guess as a female bodied person I expect those like me or have the same herstory to NOT super impose binary shenanigans on me.
One no, one explanation should be enough, common courtesy should BE expected it doesn't take rocket science to figure out what's right and what's wrong.