[WolfyOne]

Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

OK, since I am in love/lust/CRAAAZZZY about one of the members here, does that mean I can't have little mini crushes anymore? I mean hell, there are peeps on here that I absolutely adore... I love reading their posts cause they make me THINK... I love their erotica cause it not only makes me hawt but it also gives me new ideas...peeps that validate me and hold me up, and are just THERE for me...peeps that just me make smile and feel accepted and loved and part of... just home.

So is a crush a crush only if it is on someone that is unattainable? (be that because you or they are already taken, or that, if it might be doable, age/gender ID/location/whatever would make it less than likely for a hook-up?)

So yeah, I suppose that I can say I have a couple of crushes on some here. Yup.

I think it's healthy to have friendly crushes on friends.
You're in love, but not dead, so crushing on others without crossing those love boundaries you share with your partner is ok IMHO.