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Originally Posted by laruss
So as a "date" I would have to say it was ok, but I guess my idea of a "date" is different then some others.
If I am "dating" someone I want to get to know them to see how compatible we are together, what we have in common, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I'm not opposed to sleeping with someone right away if that is what has been mutually decided, but if you want to get to know me don't jump me as soon as you get me alone. That's not dating in my books.
I sent her on her way the first night telling her I wanted to get to know her and see where things might go and the very next day she jumped me again so I figured what the F* and decided to go for it.
Yes, it made for a fun afternoon, but now in my mind she has been relegated to F* Buddy as opposed to someone to get to know.
Am I alone in this thinking? Is this the norm now a days, it's been a while since I have "dated".
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i had something similar happen recently, but i told her to kick rocks instead!
(i felt like my boundaries weren't being respected) and i agree... there's nothing wrong with getting physical right away, if it's mutually agreed upon.
dating is rough sometimes. smh