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					Originally Posted by  Sachita
					 
				 
				 I am still open to a LDR if they make the time to meet face to face within a reasonable time, they are forthright and not hiding a lot of shit. I will not continue a lengthy online/phone thing beyond 3 months. 
			
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 3 months?  That is WAY too long for me.  Inside of a month for me.
I have never dated anyone that was not within driving distance.  It has never been an option for me.  Too much of a pain in the ass and the ability to assess long term compatibility is too hampered for my comfort level.  I tend to date within a 30 mile radius.  I have been very fortunate to have found women who although may not have been a part of a b/f community, were femme.
(and of course I count myself to be very lucky as I found the lovely tantalizingfemme very close to home)