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I'm not sure who it was that mentioned the 3 month mark as denoting who a person really shows up to be but I couldn't agree more. Recently I've been saying to people that 3-4 months seems like the cutoff point when I knew a relationship wasn't going to work. Both local and LD.
Maybe because when I have done LD it has involved a fair amount of skype time which gives face to face time.
In any case by 4 months someone's true nature really comes forward. Until then it's just a best foot forward scenario imho.
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