From someone I respect greatly... we were discussing pain and suffering, don't even remember why that was the topic, but this is great way to look at it.
...about change
changing
challenges and everyday stuff
There are 2 ways to grow...
Thru pain because we have to
OR
Thru love because we want to
The decision is ultimately yours
I think this was in reference to my complaining about why o why does pain have to be part of this change process, not even sure which changing process I was talking about. But the truth is resistance is futile. lol...Change is gonna happen. The point I think she was making to me is how we can choose to view that change. Thru the eyes of love and care, or by resisting and arguing, fighting.
...not that pain is always a bad thing, just sayin~
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