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Little Fish · 05-30-2012, 10:37 PM

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Patricia

Age: just turned 48 last week

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year):May 22

Location: Philadelphia, PA

Height:5'7"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Ashe Blonde, Silver at the temples

Piercings - how many & where: 2 in the L ear, 1 in the R ear

Tattoos - how many & where: yes

Cat person or dog person: both

Job:Physician

What do you like about your job?:
Being a physician is like having Orchestra seats for Life. It's an amazing gift to be invited by a patient to participate in their own healing.

What do you loathe about your job?: motherfucking insurance companies

Favorite books / authors:
"West With The Night", By Beryl Markham (with an unreal forward by her acquaintance Ernest Hemingway !!)

Favorite bands/musicians:
Too broad, how about genres?
Pop 40 Anything that helps me keep my heart rate up at the gym, but also Jazz, Blues, Classical and Opera, some House/Electronica

Favorite movies:
Out of Africa, every film by Peter Weir, and without apology I confess to loving espionage films

Favorite websites:
BFP, FB, CNN, Autostraddle.com, tumblr.com, whereisthecool, thefancy, uncrate

Favorite TV shows:
Six Feet Under, West Wing, Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones, Lip Service, The Good Wife, Grey's Anatomy (I know, can't help that last one...)

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Why do I feel like I missed the Metaphor Memo??
I'll just say this: Domestic-Jamocha Almond Fudge or gelato from our local Capo Giro and International--that ice cream place in Paris on the Ile de St Louis that everyone knows about and has a 30 person line at 8AM. It's good is what I'm sayin'

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
I only do silly things in front of my 8yo son, and I could care less who's watching! OMG how I love to make him laugh...:-)

What is your pet peeve: Rudeness, Poor phone Etiquette (which wraps back around to rudeness)

Favorite curse word: OOOOooohhhhh FUUUUCK!
first alternate:jesusfuckingchrist
second alternate: jesushit

Favorite magazine: Dwell, Afar, Elle Decor, Architectural Digest, National Geographic

A culture that intrigues you: Ancient Greece

Do you like to dance? 'fraid so, and it aint pretty, fair warning....

If you could change a law which would it be? Equal pay for equal work regardless of anything--Equal rights for all LGBTQI and sometimes Y

Do you collect anything? Yes. Small, handmade clay teapots from China, and Art--primarily paintings and photographs.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
Many dates came to mind immediately, but I would like to have been around to see when the Cave of the Swimmers was painted. It was featured in the film The English Patient---today it is a large cave deep in an arrid, bone-dry, brutal desert. However, the cave paintings clearly depict swimmers in water....I find this so intriguing.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Sure.

Your idea of a good meal:
I know this is going to sound cheesy but it's so true, a meal that is made for me when a woman really cares about me is the best food ever.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I would like to know what all those batshitcrazyfuckers who run North Korea are thinking.

Introvert or extrovert: I'm basically an extrovert but because I'm also an only-child, I really comfortable being alone and quiet too. This surprises people. *shrug/smile*

Dream profession: professional sailor, civilian not military

What are your Hobbies: sailing, drawing, architecture and design, cycling, I'm considering learning to play the cello....hmmm.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Nope, none.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? I'm not sure but I hope so--there's a girl I'll look for first, in my next life!

What do you get complemented on most often? I rarely do...maybe being funny/nice/charming?

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
Not having any cartilage left in my knees.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Restore the oceans to optimal health, clean air, fix the Ozone, clean water--I know that's four...

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
Secretary of State Hillary Clinton

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
Well, my spiritual training was conducted at the hands of my Grandmother who was American Indian so my religion is specific to our tribe and best described as a Traditional Indigenous Belief System.

Do you generally feel understood?
Yes, especially when I talk with my hands. Crystal clear communication then.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Honestly? Not while my son is 8yo---when he's 28, probably yes...

Biggest concern about aging:
Outliving my cognitive function.

What were you like in high school?
Both a jock and a geek. Think Varsity Soccer and Softball plus French Club and AP English. In my Senior year, I was out to some friends and started to earn a reputation for different in a cool way. No one was more surprised than I.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Yes! I highly recommend it!

Issues that you feel most passionate about: oh god really? It's after midnight...what everyone else said...

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My own. Hers.

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer butch

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: Tits and a pulse. Just kidding folks, I'm kinda tired here...
My most satisfying relationships have been with women who ID as lesbians femmes--I especially appreciate intellect, humor, kindness and generosity

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Fun-loving High Femmes who are smart and curious about the world

Number of times you've been in love: twice :-)

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?
How incredibly easy it was to fall in love with her, how perfect it felt for so long.

Monogamy or polyamory: For the long haul, definitely monogamy but for shorter periods of time, I have had more then one steady lover at a time.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?
Natalie.....

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yep.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yep, sure did.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy age 13, Girl age 16

Describe your best kiss: I've had a number of noteworthy kisses but one that sticks out in memory--the first kiss with the first woman I fell in love with. It was June in the SF Bay Area, under a full moon in a Redwood Forest. She fit perfectly in my arms and I can still see clearly the way she looked up into my face. Just. So. Amazing.

Describe your last kiss: ummm, a 23yo Barista who works at the cafe around the corner from my house, we went for a walk in the woods....

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Physically, it's the way she looks when she smiles and how she carries herself in the world.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Cruelty, selfishness, unkindness.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my last gf

What are you self-conscious about naked?
I have some scars and scar tissue from a head-on collision 25 years ago, not visible while dressed, they certainly are when naked.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
Not a deal-breaker but I prefer some light...the best sex involves all my senses.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
-my last gf was new to sucking butch cock, she climaxed while doing so the first time
-a woman climaxed just from my sucking on her breasts
-love love love that moan from kissing alone

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
-tell me to stop kissing

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Nope.

Do you have any Fetishes:
Not really. I love Femmes in lingerie but I don't think it rises to the level of Fetish.

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: only intermittently with some lovers but not consistently, I'm pretty GGG in general though...

Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Not yet.

How often do you masturbate?
Daily.

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
Trimmed.

05-30-2012, 10:37 PM	#11
Little Fish Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: female ones, will also respond to babe, boi and Romeo Relationship Status: Happy :-) Join Date: May 2012 Location: apearldiver@gmail.com Posts: 349 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,655 Thanked 1,886 Times in 321 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	PART I - General Info Real Name (first only): Patricia Age: just turned 48 last week Astrological Sign: Gemini Birth Date: (day only - not year):May 22 Location: Philadelphia, PA Height:5'7" Eye Color: Blue Hair Color: Ashe Blonde, Silver at the temples Piercings - how many & where: 2 in the L ear, 1 in the R ear Tattoos - how many & where: yes Cat person or dog person: both Job:Physician What do you like about your job?: Being a physician is like having Orchestra seats for Life. It's an amazing gift to be invited by a patient to participate in their own healing. What do you loathe about your job?: motherfucking insurance companies Favorite books / authors: "West With The Night", By Beryl Markham (with an unreal forward by her acquaintance Ernest Hemingway !!) Favorite bands/musicians: Too broad, how about genres? Pop 40 Anything that helps me keep my heart rate up at the gym, but also Jazz, Blues, Classical and Opera, some House/Electronica Favorite movies: Out of Africa, every film by Peter Weir, and without apology I confess to loving espionage films Favorite websites: BFP, FB, CNN, Autostraddle.com, tumblr.com, whereisthecool, thefancy, uncrate Favorite TV shows: Six Feet Under, West Wing, Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones, Lip Service, The Good Wife, Grey's Anatomy (I know, can't help that last one...) Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Why do I feel like I missed the Metaphor Memo?? I'll just say this: Domestic-Jamocha Almond Fudge or gelato from our local Capo Giro and International--that ice cream place in Paris on the Ile de St Louis that everyone knows about and has a 30 person line at 8AM. It's good is what I'm sayin' A silly thing you do when no one is watching: I only do silly things in front of my 8yo son, and I could care less who's watching! OMG how I love to make him laugh...:-) What is your pet peeve: Rudeness, Poor phone Etiquette (which wraps back around to rudeness) Favorite curse word: OOOOooohhhhh FUUUUCK! first alternate:jesusfuckingchrist second alternate: jesushit Favorite magazine: Dwell, Afar, Elle Decor, Architectural Digest, National Geographic A culture that intrigues you: Ancient Greece Do you like to dance? 'fraid so, and it aint pretty, fair warning.... If you could change a law which would it be? Equal pay for equal work regardless of anything--Equal rights for all LGBTQI and sometimes Y Do you collect anything? Yes. Small, handmade clay teapots from China, and Art--primarily paintings and photographs. If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and why? Many dates came to mind immediately, but I would like to have been around to see when the Cave of the Swimmers was painted. It was featured in the film The English Patient---today it is a large cave deep in an arrid, bone-dry, brutal desert. However, the cave paintings clearly depict swimmers in water....I find this so intriguing. Would you ever have plastic surgery? Sure. Your idea of a good meal: I know this is going to sound cheesy but it's so true, a meal that is made for me when a woman really cares about me is the best food ever. If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and what would you want to see? I would like to know what all those batshitcrazyfuckers who run North Korea are thinking. Introvert or extrovert: I'm basically an extrovert but because I'm also an only-child, I really comfortable being alone and quiet too. This surprises people. shrug/smile Dream profession: professional sailor, civilian not military What are your Hobbies: sailing, drawing, architecture and design, cycling, I'm considering learning to play the cello....hmmm. Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Nope, none. Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on yours? I'm not sure but I hope so--there's a girl I'll look for first, in my next life! What do you get complemented on most often? I rarely do...maybe being funny/nice/charming? What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as an acceptable answer? Not having any cartilage left in my knees. If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would they be? Restore the oceans to optimal health, clean air, fix the Ozone, clean water--I know that's four... If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes would you choose? Secretary of State Hillary Clinton Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Well, my spiritual training was conducted at the hands of my Grandmother who was American Indian so my religion is specific to our tribe and best described as a Traditional Indigenous Belief System. Do you generally feel understood? Yes, especially when I talk with my hands. Crystal clear communication then. Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten thousand others? Honestly? Not while my son is 8yo---when he's 28, probably yes... Biggest concern about aging: Outliving my cognitive function. What were you like in high school? Both a jock and a geek. Think Varsity Soccer and Softball plus French Club and AP English. In my Senior year, I was out to some friends and started to earn a reputation for different in a cool way. No one was more surprised than I. Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes! I highly recommend it! Issues that you feel most passionate about: oh god really? It's after midnight...what everyone else said... The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My own. Hers. PART II: Love/Sexuality Sexual orientation: Lesbian How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer butch Current relationship status: single What you look for in a partner: Tits and a pulse. Just kidding folks, I'm kinda tired here... My most satisfying relationships have been with women who ID as lesbians femmes--I especially appreciate intellect, humor, kindness and generosity The "type" of person you tend to attract: Fun-loving High Femmes who are smart and curious about the world Number of times you've been in love: twice :-) What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How incredibly easy it was to fall in love with her, how perfect it felt for so long. Monogamy or polyamory: For the long haul, definitely monogamy but for shorter periods of time, I have had more then one steady lover at a time. Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in the world? Natalie..... Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yep. Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone you met online? Yep, sure did. Age when you had your first kiss: Boy age 13, Girl age 16 Describe your best kiss: I've had a number of noteworthy kisses but one that sticks out in memory--the first kiss with the first woman I fell in love with. It was June in the SF Bay Area, under a full moon in a Redwood Forest. She fit perfectly in my arms and I can still see clearly the way she looked up into my face. Just. So. Amazing. Describe your last kiss: ummm, a 23yo Barista who works at the cafe around the corner from my house, we went for a walk in the woods.... What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Physically, it's the way she looks when she smiles and how she carries herself in the world. What trait in a woman turns you off?: Cruelty, selfishness, unkindness. PART III: SEX The last person who saw you naked: my last gf What are you self-conscious about naked? I have some scars and scar tissue from a head-on collision 25 years ago, not visible while dressed, they certainly are when naked. When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the lights on or off? Not a deal-breaker but I prefer some light...the best sex involves all my senses. Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual situation that really turned you on: -my last gf was new to sucking butch cock, she climaxed while doing so the first time -a woman climaxed just from my sucking on her breasts -love love love that moan from kissing alone Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual situation that turned you off: -tell me to stop kissing Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Nope. Do you have any Fetishes: Not really. I love Femmes in lingerie but I don't think it rises to the level of Fetish. Name your fetishes: Leather - yes or no?: no BDSM - yes or no?: only intermittently with some lovers but not consistently, I'm pretty GGG in general though... Have you ever had a one-night stand? Not yet. How often do you masturbate? Daily. Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Trimmed.