Hello Electocell, I agree apartment walls are to thin.
Have you ever brought to attention to someone to be more quiet and what was that like to bring it to their attention?
I'm still in a learning process when to bring my needs and wants known, I do know I aim for win/win...
I am proud of myself for when it was at the worse with my neighbor, I bring it known to her - and she said she need 30 days for sisters children to return to her sister...
she allow her sisters children to stay with her - well it felt like I was in one of those
http://www.supernanny.com/
The children didn't want to sleep and would scream, slam things through the night, and rampage through the day, jumping, screaming, while adults scream, it felt as if I were in a day care, while I live alone in my apartment... I went way to long trying to tune it out, before I went to my neighbor to talk - aim for win/win.
Not knowing the full situation; perhaps no place for the children to live, maybe sister needs help and left the children there, I didn't know, however I became intrigue with the show
http://www.supernanny.com/
My challenge as this is relation to deaf hard of hearing and as I gain hearing - I felt lost as to what is acceptable and what is not acceptable, as if ______ a dog barks - wakes me from a nap, is that acceptabe or not?
I was lost when does one complain or learn to tune out.
This book I read: [ame="http://www.amazon.com/The-Sound-Of-Miracle-Inspiring/dp/0825305330/ref=dp_ob_title_bk"]Amazon.com: The Sound Of A Miracle: The Inspiring True Story of A Mother's Fight to Free Her Child from Autism (9780825305337): Annabel Stehli: Books[/ame]
[ame="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/images/0825305330/ref=dp_image_0?ie=UTF8&n=283155&s=books"]Amazon.com: The Sound Of A Miracle: The Inspiring True Story of A Mother's Fight to Free Her Child from Autism (9780825305337): Annabel Stehli[/ame]
The Sound Of A Miracle: The Inspiring True Story of A Mother's Fight to Free Her Child from Autism
http://www.berardaitwebsite.com/sait/meaning.html
http://www.georgianainstitute.org/
Where my next challenge is my own anger. and how I am online: I'm noticing I'm expressing my emotions in relations with sounds. I'm noticing maybe I'm not polite:
I keep thinking I'm suppose to always be with a smile, always be a nice neighbor, make sure I'm kind, polite and nice, no matter what's going on in my mind, no matter what my emotions are:
for earth is sounds that roams freely, and who am I to complain, will others care?
I cop car siruns, thunder in sky, tornado siruns, what really puzzles me is those arab countries, singing through the populary area through speekers: oh and there's churches where bells happens in towns in the US:
what is acceptable what isn't, ones own mind doesn't count in this: emotions must be stopped, as only a smile must appear at all times... However when its time to complain, how does one complain, and..., I want to be a human and not a monster.
I know of someone who can't stand the sound of someone eating popcorn: yet knowing that this person can't make people stop eating popcorn if in a movie theator.
I'm intrig by this as if fixated, my dad makes us eat apples in another room, I'm fixated as during that time I'm hard of hearing, yet it confuses me when later in life I can hear: what is acceptable and not acceptable, when is it time to complain or not complain, how does one deal with their own mind, their own imagination when feeling.
And about online - who is this person who's typing - how I find me able to express: this pase of writing, time to think, yet I want to make sure this is in relation with this thread: I want to be kind, I want to learn.
I've never been diagnose as autism, as well as I never been taught ABA: its that I notice I think like how they teach ABA., always studying the behaviors around me as if fixaded and then using what I see around me to echo it, as I don't have my own understanding what is acceptable and not acceptable...
is this confusing at all as you heard all your life: have you ever found out you compain towards sounds and found out that sound is acceptable and you were suppose to tune it out?
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Originally Posted by Electrocell
Viola I think anytime you live in an apartment especially if the walls are thin it's aggravating. Have you told your neighbors you can hear them if they are too loud?
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