I guess for me secrets are what caused most of my problems and it is important to me to be able to share openly. I think telling our truth is important.
I certainly get the need to have therapy and AA type groups with facilitators and the promise of anonymity....for those who feel the need to keep things hidden. I have been though so much, I genuinely do not care any more.
I think having the closed PTSD group, when when you click it asks you for a password, but you can see who is in there seems exclusive and hurtful to those who have not rated an invitation to said PTSD group, which I think would be further triggering.
I want people to blunder in and feel free to say or not say what they want to.
I am just saying NO to secrets.