Thinker, thank you for your honesty. That is precisely what we're dealing with. There's that one side to the situation where we know we will not ignore this at all. But there's also that dysphoric smack in the face where you're almost willing to bargain for something more serious to deal with just so you don't have to suffer the violation of identity.
Right or wrong we use humor to cope sometimes and have privately joked that maybe this will get us a 2-for-1 special on top surgery.
Anya, of course I don't mind that femmes post on this thread. I sincerely appreciate any and all thoughtful comments that will help us both cope, individually and together.
Thanks,
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