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Alix,
Your point is well taken and we singles would do well to remember this and be encouraged.
I have an amazing 8yo son whom I share with my ex-wife. Since he loves with me half-time, I do get a chance to date and maintain friendships, I'm lucky in that regard. But at this point I am clear I want more children so I do not even consider seriously anyone who doesn't already have children or who is not open to this--it can limit the pool but generally I think I benefit from the Butches with Babies/Kids thing...
(a thought for those of you caring for parents, often times the condition-specific local chapter --say Alzheimer's --will have a respite program to allow you to get out, take a break, whatever--for all of you, I now it's hard and devoted care, you have my support.)
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