[ValKyrie]

I made a list in therapy before I met the "right" someone and she had a list too. We both lived up to each others lists and I am still reeling in how well we fit.

Butch
Confident in herself
Take charge in the bedroom
Loves kids
Neat and tidy
Takes pride in her appearance
Good manners
Proper grammar
Likes food
Well read
Is stable financially, career wise, and emotionally
Has own interests
Has own friends
Wants to do things apart from me
Wants to do things with me
High sex drive
Appreciates my femmeness but is ok with me getting dirty, working on my car, etc
Likes to go out at times, but also likes the quiet intimate Times
Likes to cuddle
Is not intimidated by my self confidence and fierceness
Likes to watch me play roller derby but does not want to play herself
Appreciates my independence but allows me to be weak at times
Older then me
Family is important