*sigh* Just spent over $400 on clothes and shoes for The Boy. Actually dress clothes and dress shoes. It's not that I mind the spending so much, he's been long overdue, it's why I spent it. Usually we are fine buying from Goodwill and waiting to get stuff that will fit him. I've found some really good stuff. But he still needed shoes. Today the ex was txting me that Men's Wearhouse was having a good sale and that they had his sizes and that she was going to order him shoes. I didn't mind that. Then I get a text that she's found him some button downs she's going to get him. Then another that she's going to order him some pants and some cargo shorts (of which he has like 7). She's doing this to help, and I really understand that. But it kinda made me feel like what he has isn't good enough and it needs to be all this. I mean all he really needed were shoes. I understand this is my hangup. I'm just venting here. So to keep her from spending her money, I went and bought him dress shirts, slacks, shoes, and belts (oh yeah I forgot about the 6th or 7th text that was ordering belts LOL).
*sigh* Now I have to figure out which bills I'm going to put off until the first-of-the-month paycheck, since I barely have enough for groceries now. No bills will be late, I just hate waiting 'til days before they are due to pay them. Plus I planned to get my registration for the reunion with the 1st pay check. Guess that will wait til the mid-July paycheck. *sigh*
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