Hello. It's a warm day here in south central Pa and tomorrow promises to be warmer! That would be GREAT if I liked hellishly hot summer days! Which I don't
I am trying to be kind and considerate to my ex (yeah, we decided to try the friend things again) but she's already acting resentful that my social calender isn't free for her to pick and choose when she wants to do something, whatever that something is. Granted, my social calander only has one name on it (TT) but there it is.
We're going to have to have THE talk again. Her sullenly listening, me calmly explaining that not only is TT a very very important part of my life, I am also pretty much decided on getting my OWN TT. (child lol) So, this is my life, either be a part of it or don't, but don't expect the pouting, sullen silences and guilt trips to do anything but make me stop taking your calls.
I am single, and do want the marriage, the kids, the entire nine yards, but I am taking this time to learn how to be me again, just me, to learn how to be in love with myself. It truly isn't as difficult as I thought it would be. Turns out that I am rather loveable! Who knew?? LOL
Anyway, though I can, at times, come off as a bitch, I truly am not and am open to any and all friendships. The best relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship.
Take care,
Lissa