[Julien]

Originally Posted by laruss

Okay, so even though I have surpassed "crush" for one, I am now onto absolutely Twitterpated. I still have "crushes" on a few butches on here. What they write, how they respond to things, the messages I get all play a part in that crush. A crush for me (on BFP) is a feeling you get when you see them post and maybe you check to see what they said today and you get a bit giddy when you get a message from them. But, in all truthfulness I love to crush knowing that it isn't going anywhere, it keeps me 'tingly' through the day and then that special someone gets the benefit of my 'tingles'. Doesn't mean that in the fantasy world things might be different, I am just a realist, and an insatiable one so I need someone here with me, not far, far away across the boarder. And yes every crush is different, some are 'that's a fascinating person' and some are 'wow, if things were different, I would be all over that'.

But, still just crushes that I enjoy, and friends that I make.

My two cents to all you butches that are crushing, take the first step. I know how I feel when that happens, and even if you don't get the girl, you may make a great friend.

Happy crushing everyone.

Laruss, I like what you wrote and to see the word twitterpated made me chuckle. I think that what you said is so true about every crush being different and unique in their own way. The crushee (s) have different things to offer us and we can be attracted to them for that. I think it is a good thing to have more than one crush going. I understand the realistic side as well and for me personally distance can be an issue. But I love meeting people who I'm crushing on even if it is only through the site.