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Originally Posted by IslandScout
Someone very wise pointed out to me today, as I was making fun of how the butches just show up on this thread to look around and see if anyone is crushing on them—as opposed to owning up to who THEY are crushing on—that the femmes don't name names, either.
Maybe the idea is just for people who have crushes to all show up in the same place and mill around and wonder about each other. What are the chances of them being the object of each other's crushes? Maybe pretty good!
People are we in the seventh grade or what????
I suggest anyone with a crush PM the person you are crushing. Let her/hyr/him know how you feel! Own it! I dare you!
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The good thing about crushes is that they can be anonymous.
I'd only tell who I crushed on if I was paid enough money (and, yes, I do accept Paypal).
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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy
Ok, I'll be honest as I always am. The reason I don't crush online is because it won't go anywhere and I think that maybe I want a crush to lead to love. The second reason is that I could never ask someone to move their life for me.
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A crush is just a crush .... it's not a relationship and, in most instances will never have the opportunity to develop into an actual relationship. Most crushes aren't meant to go anywhere - at their best, they'll maybe give you a bit more energy in your step in the mornings.
Crushing on someone isn't akin to asking them to move in with you, nor should it be.