[Julien]

Originally Posted by Breezy

Good morning Crushers!

I am super excited, today! It is going to beautiful! I watered the lawn and flowers already, logged into work @ 5:00 a.m. and I may get to log off @ noon! woooooooooohoooooo!

It is good to see so many people here!

Okay crushes, mine are mainly cerebral. I desire to know someone very, very well in person before I ever commit. I date, as in old school date. It takes, for me, at least 1-2 years of truly seeing, interacting and knowing an individual to decide IF they are someone I choose to commit to a monogamous relationship. If the mask slips off early on, I walk away. If there is a mask at all, I walk away. Sometimes things crop up after committing. It did for me.

I choose functional, healthy and interdependent rather than codependent relationships. I see where my last one went wrong. It takes time to grieve as well as to know another person. Don't get me wrong, crushes are a rush and fun.

Hugs for everyone!

Cerebral crushes are the best kind.