[Miss Scarlett]

Originally Posted by claybaby

For ME....anyone can crush anyone..it is a secret admiration....usually about something I find attractive about them..ie: a brilliant mind, a sense of humor, maybe their aura I sense, or their heart....my crushes aren't about any specific gender or with the intent & purpose of "falling madly in love & cohabitating for life"...it is simply an admiration of some one or more of their attributes..their moral compass..their fabric of life..or their heart for others...or the incredibly sexy intelligence...I can, and do crush often...and in no way does those crushes have any affect on my relationship with the girl...being confident & secure in myself and in my relationship allows for my heart strings to be tugged by others...in any or all ways I mentioned above...BTW I DO tell my crush(es) I am crushing.......

i agree...Anyone can crush Anyone...i've got several of my own here on the planet and in the real world and they're across the spectrum...i'm secure enough in my relationship that any crush Clay may have does not make me feel insecure (nor do my crushes have that effect on hym) because i know it's just a crush and for each of us crushing is an admiration of something about someone and does not represent sexual or romantic interest in that person...