[nycfem]

I think it's a very thoughtful answer and appreciate your honesty. Thank you.

Originally Posted by ferret

It's been my experience that where I live, a lot of femmes generally are interested in dating another femme. Or, people will get to know me, and/or eventually see a picture of me, and they drop of the face of the earth. I don't think I'm a troll or anything....And I certainly don't think I'm "too butch." Maybe it's because I'm honest to the point of being blunt (I feel like sometimes when people say they want honesty or the truth, that they just want a little bit, if that makes sense). I never thought it would be as hard as it is to find that connection with someone - both the physical and emotional- but apparently, it is. LOL, sorry. That's probably more of an answer than you bargained for.