[JistMe]

IslandScout .... Best answer EVER = Your idea of a good meal: Healthy and tasty, not labor intensive, but involving some chopping (which I enjoy), and prepared in a familiar and colorful kitchen with someone I love, both of us barefoot, the windows open, a breeze from the garden slipping through, a bottle of wine on the counter. We’re sharing music we just found, switching around on an IPod on the counter, and neither of us has to get up early, and everyone in our lives is okay for at least that one day. That is my idea of a really, really good meal.



The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Crys
Age:
37
Astrological Sign:
Sagittarius
Birth Date: (day only - not year):
December 18th
Location:
Cottage Grove, Oregon
Height:
5'4"
Eye Color:
Brown
Hair Color:
Dark Brown
Piercings - how many & where:
One ear, had my tongue done in my twenties, but not now
Tattoos - how many & where:
One on my chest (Many more are in my future)

Cat person or dog person:
Dog
Job:
Privately Contracted Research Assistant

What do you like about your job?:
I work mostly from home, make my own hours, and it's different every day. I'm a learning geek anyway, and learning new things every day keeps it interesting. The money isn't bad either.
What do you loathe about your job?:
My biggest client is SOOO hard to work with. I also hate the politics involved. I'm a pretty good writer, but I absolutely haaaaaaaaaaate doing it, so the articles and interviews... radio shows, etc... all get very old.

Favorite books / authors:
As I said, I am a learning nerd... so a lot of what I read is nonfiction. But I do like some literary fiction, and I absolutely love poetry.
Favorite bands/musicians:
Neko Case, Adele, Five for Fighting, Sister 7, Yiruma or any really good piano music, Acoustic anything, Anything country... LOVE the blues... I like it all.
Favorite websites: fmylife.com -- penzu.com -- Literotica.com -- Many Blog Sites... Open Source... PBS.org ...need I go on?

Favorite TV shows:
Documentaries, Science and History, Animal Shows... Also like some comedy, and reality shows.
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
All the flavors
A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Play with the baby's cookie monster piano
What is your pet peeve:
Toothpaste in the sink. Disgusting.
Favorite curse word:
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

Favorite magazine:
Pastel Journal, Wet Canvas.. I dont read many mags anymore.

A culture that intrigues you:
All cultures are interesting.

Do you like to dance?
Yes... mostly with the music up, and the lights low... with someone special in my arms, us in our socks, and her face in my neck.
Do you collect anything?
Yes, I do. Maps, art, books... and apparently heart shaped rocks. I keep finding them everywhere.

Your idea of a good meal:
(smiling at IslandScout) Perfect answer.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I would go back to watch my kids grow up, and although it would be difficult to see how hard it was for them without me, I would make myself watch so I could better understand them today, and know where they are coming from.

Introvert or extrovert:
A little of both. I can be shy under the right circumstances, but am generally very friendly, bold, and outgoing. I have learned, however, that I like time alone.
Dream profession:
Artist
What are your Hobbies:
Art, Building Models, Fishing, Music, Reading... There's more.

What do you get complemented on most often?
That I look young.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
I'm just generally a small person. When you look like a short and scrawny teenage boy, it's hard to get people to take you seriously -- professionally, and personally.
If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
Someone with really cool shoes.
Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
No, thank you.
Do you generally feel understood?
No.
Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
How would I know? That would be entirely situational. But more than likely, I would.
Biggest concern about aging:
Being alone.

What were you like in high school?
Same as I am today... almost exactly.
Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Yes, if I found someone whose world was that much richer with me in it, and mine with her... I wouldn't hesitate. It has to come easy for both of us.
The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
Mine.

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
Gay
How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
Handsome.... and Awesome.
Current relationship status:
Single
The "type" of person you tend to attract:
Emotionally Unavailable Psychobitches
Monogamy or polyamory:
Monogamy
Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
Yes
Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes, long term. Successful? I like to think so, although we aren't together anymore. Any growth is success, in my world.
Describe your best kiss:
When I met "her".... we went walking around and window shopping. I bought her a bathing suit for her upcoming vacation, and a tiny ring with stars on it. It was hot out, so we got gelato. She put her legs across my lap, and fed me bites. She had the most beautiful smile, and when she looked at me, everything else just disappeared. I carried her shopping bags to her car, and watched as she put them in the trunk. When she closed it, I put my hand over hers.... and as she turned to look at me, I put my other arm around her, and kissed her there against the car. The whole world swirled away, and we got so lost in each other that we slid off the trunk.... just... FELL OVER... together, in each other's arms. I realized just in time, and caught us both. We both laughed, and she reached up and touched my face, and I was gone.

Describe your last kiss:
Same girl. But instead of laughing, this time we cried.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Her heart.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Pushy, Bossy, Self Centered.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
Uhh... me?

What are you self-conscious about naked?
Nothing
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
Low lights.
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
Intimate moments with other's is not something I'm willing to share in a public forum.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
(see above)
Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
Yes.
Do you have any Fetishes: *
Name your fetishes: *
Leather - yes or no?: *
BDSM - yes or no?: *
Have you ever had a one-night stand?
No

* = For details, send a SASE to my inbox lol