I would agree that telling a person face to face that you have a crush on them, or even one on one, outside this forum's thread, could evoke haunting concern's of what movies are made of...
but here? In this thread? I dont think anyone would bat an eye if someone declared a sweet adoring crush on someone.
the only exception..would be if either person was in a relationship...
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Originally Posted by Ciaran
Telling someone you've a crush on them or not doesn't necessarily come down to courage. In most cases, it's as much about how that could be perceived by the other person.
For example, if someone told me that they had a crush on me, I'd probably be slighly spooked because, to me, subconsciously, the word "crush" has connatations of teenage years and slightly unbalanced reactions caused by a combination of overactive hormones and naivety.
That's not to disrespect those who crush - as I do too. However, I'd never tell someone that I had a "crush" on them. I might tell them that they are attractive or beautiful or something else but I wouldn't use the "crush" word.
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