[Just_G]

I am sure a lot of people see me as a butch "girl". I, personally, do not. I have never liked being called a girl or liked it when someone says "you go girl" or "girrrrrl, you should have seen....", but that is just me. I am not a boy (depending on who calls me that..) or a girl, a man or a woman. I am butch, I am A butch....I am what I consider the gray area....or the best of both worlds.

I don't like being referred to as someone's "girlfriend" in a relationship sense, but if that is how they want to term it, fine. To be really honest, I feel like I have to settle for whatever makes everyone else comfortable, and it is getting tiring....anywho.....

I get what Tristan was saying in the article, I really do. I just had to substitute the word "girl" with "butch", and then I was quite happy.

btw, this is all coming from my ME space, and I am by no means trying to say anyone else should feel this way or that the word "girl" is icky or gross...it's just not for me.