I plow and seed and harvest to get money to plow and seed and harvest. Considering I spent the last three years killing stuff to get better stuff to kill stuff with, and paying for the privilege, I'm ok with just farming.
Although, I caught myself feeling slightly guilty today that I didn't get a chance to fertilize and feed my friends cuz I was too busy working.
And re the family thing - my brother and I have not spoken in almost 8 years, but we're FB friends. /headtilt