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not being suffocated by someone who has to be near me physically whenever we are home together. This makes me CRAZY. chrissy does not do this and I am ever so grateful for this. And he doesnt do it, because HE doesnt like it anymore than I do. So its not like he has to alter his needs to accomodate mine. We "fit" well together this way.

my ways being accepted as just different ways instead of being seen as wrong. I am sure you have been thru this. I like to do dishes when i want to do dishes, not because someone wants the sink clean every night. I CAN do dishes every night to please my mate, but when I dont, to please me, by god, dont look at me like I am a slob or just masturbated in front of your family. chrissy folds clothes one way. I fold them a completely different way. Neither is the right way. They are both right. This is truly a sign of maturity and real love. I dont mean how clothes are folded. I mean because no one way is deemed as right and another way/person is wrong.

I spent alot of time doing things like leaving notes in wallets, on the inside of cupboard doors and in the upside of the car visor. Now, I know what makes me swoon is when he makes sure the last bit of milk is left for me, for my morning coffee. Words dont make me swoon above actions....