This is really cool that there is a thread for us forty and fifty somethings! i'm 45 and holding! lol! it's not so bad being in the forty something group, even though sometimes i feel like i've been through the war! but i did enjoy my first time skydiving recently! so that makes up for a lot of the bad and sad times in life! so where are the hot single butches in their forties on here? lol!