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Old 08-09-2012, 08:35 AM   #96
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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee View Post
Speaking from this femmes POV it frustrates me a bit to have to (sometimes repeatedly) correct people that my partner is a she. She does not want to be a he, never has. They seem shocked at that, probably because she is butch. i want to be with a she, i am myself more comfortable with that so we fit well.

i have never wanted to emulate the life of straight folks, i don't want to look like them, i don't want to have sex like them and i don't want to be referred to as MAN/WOMAN..i don't want it to be expected that i want to be with a *male* ID'd partner.
CD,
Thank you for articulating thoughs and feelings I've had myself.

For me:
I would date a male id'd woman. One that desires too be called he, I find this more difficult for me, but would personally not limit myself by this alone.

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Last edited by Bleu; 08-09-2012 at 08:43 AM. Reason: clarification
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