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Andrew, Jr. · 03-09-2010, 10:04 AM

Jess thanks for starting this thread.

Right now I can use some advice. I am being bombarded with all of my nieces and nephews coming to me. In 3 weeks one of my nieces is getting married. My niece getting married wants to honor her aunt (who died) by placing a photograph of her on the alter in the Church. My late sister's husband is bringing a date to the wedding, and his 2 sons will be there as well. The issue is that he is dating, and that the kids feel Aunt Jo is being replaced. I constantly tell them all that nobody is ever going to replace Aunt Jo. Nobody. But when dealing with children, it is different. And I am not one to really help them. I can say the words, but it is just sinking in with them. The ages range from newborns all the way up to early 20's.

Help me with this, please.

Much thanks.

Love,
Andrew

03-09-2010, 10:04 AM	#5
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	I'm the queer Uncle Jess thanks for starting this thread. Right now I can use some advice. I am being bombarded with all of my nieces and nephews coming to me. In 3 weeks one of my nieces is getting married. My niece getting married wants to honor her aunt (who died) by placing a photograph of her on the alter in the Church. My late sister's husband is bringing a date to the wedding, and his 2 sons will be there as well. The issue is that he is dating, and that the kids feel Aunt Jo is being replaced. I constantly tell them all that nobody is ever going to replace Aunt Jo. Nobody. But when dealing with children, it is different. And I am not one to really help them. I can say the words, but it is just sinking in with them. The ages range from newborns all the way up to early 20's. Help me with this, please. Much thanks. Love, Andrew