[Soft*Silver]

I have never been treated so well.

First, he is a wonderful person. Truly, a kind, compassionate, loyal, honest human being. A good friend. Someone you can rely on. Someone you admire. He is the one you would turn to if you needed help, even if you didnt know him well. You know he would be there. But he is no doormat. He is a strong character, in body and soul. His integrity is never shaken and no matter how hard you shake the character tree, no bad apples fall out of it.

Secondly, he is a wonderful submissive. Far far more experienced than I and took me on as his Domme because I saw in him the value he had beyond the sex, as a sub. Not only am I getting his service, I am getting his experience, yet am not getting topped from the bottom. his sense of reverence and protocol is incredible.

As a BF, he is romantic and playful. He is in his 50s like I am, and has had his heart pulled out and savaged in front of him, much like me, as well. In other words, we have come to appreciate the simple joy of honesty, faithfulness,respect and appreciation in relationships and strive to give as well as receive these things. We so uncomplicate the whole relationship process when we just keep it to those things.

We also are not committed to cultural expectations and stereotypes of who we are and who we should be. Obviously. I dont fit into a mold nor does he. This freedom has expanded my own knowledge of myself over the past couple years of knowing him. A good relationship should allow and encourage personal growth...and ours does.

and we love each other. It evolved. It was always there from the get go but it has amplified and trails like a good acid trip. LOL. And none of it happened overnite. It happened through some very tough times too..like when i almost died after surgery. and when I needed constant care when I came home from it. Nightingale effect? maybe. But its perfect. Such tenderness I have never known.