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Originally Posted by BullDog
LOL thee Almighty BullDog was not granting you any permission. Eyeball roll.
EDIT: I am really going to try and make this my last post here because this is truly ridiculous.
I see a new young person that as far as I know is a young 23 year butch. I think what a difference it would have made if I could have found a butch femme community at that age, and I hope for the best and give the kid some slack.
If it turns out she is not who she says she is, I will fill a twinge of sadness and my life will go on. She will not have harmed me.
It really, really does bother me how a part of our community treats new and young people here. It really, really does not make me feel good.
I am done.
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Again i dont get it... So what age is appropriate to engage in questioning statements and facts that seem downright questionable?..... 30...35?
and how long do we have to wait for the new member to respond to not one but many questionable statements?..... 6 months.....1 year?
So what changes in that time as far as our facts and "treatment" goes?
I thought treatment had to do with how we asked,what we said, how we said it,
I didnt realize that just questioning the validity/facts was outright poor treatment.
I was raised that if it smells like poop.... go ahead call it poop!
and/or its ok to question things and encouraged at times to do so.....
While using respectfull language.
I will stand by how my mom taught me!