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Tcountry · 08-30-2012, 03:43 PM

In my own little world it all depends on context...
Every day with my jeans, boots & bandana ..it could go either way & for the most part I just get the double take looks.
Sometimes checking out of a store, I get the deer in the headlight look when they say "here's Ur change sir" & I just give the a warm smile & say thank u (totally non-masculine voice)...
But when I dress up button up & tie & take an elegantly dressed lady to a nice dinner ...I Like the "sir" in fact I even tip them better than usual...I guess to me it is showing that they understand or at least respect that we are on a date& we will be treated as well as any other couple on a date...no less ....

*tip hat*

08-30-2012, 03:43 PM	#44
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	In my own little world it all depends on context... Every day with my jeans, boots & bandana ..it could go either way & for the most part I just get the double take looks. Sometimes checking out of a store, I get the deer in the headlight look when they say "here's Ur change sir" & I just give the a warm smile & say thank u (totally non-masculine voice)... But when I dress up button up & tie & take an elegantly dressed lady to a nice dinner ...I Like the "sir" in fact I even tip them better than usual...I guess to me it is showing that they understand or at least respect that we are on a date& we will be treated as well as any other couple on a date...no less .... tip hat __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way"